Narcissism

I have been called worst..... me Narcisstic? ..  Twas so rude ! Was damn angry when commented that.. but since calming dwn and thinking it thoroughly maybe the person who commented has a point so I search and googled and found the definition of Narcissism on wiki. and I read some more on this topic and found a site which has a test .. Yupzy my findings from the questionnaire ,  I do have a moderate trait of Narcisstic, Histrionic and Dependent personality.. but its moderate .   ... It has all got to do with Childhood trauma from what I have read.  Here goes ...

Narcissism From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

 The term narcissism refers to the personality trait of egotism, which includes the set of character traits concerned with self-image ego.

The terms narcissism, narcissistic, and narcissist are often used as pejoratives, denoting vanity, conceit, egotism or simple selfishness. Applied to a social group, it is sometimes used to denote elitism or an indifference to the plight of others.

The name "narcissism" is derived from Greek mythology. Narcissus was a handsome Greek youth who rejected the desperate advances of the nymph Echo. As punishment, he was doomed to fall in love with his own reflection in a pool of water. Unable to consummate his love, Narcissus pined away and changed into the flower that bears his name, the narcissus.

Freud believed that some narcissism is an essential part of all of us from birth. Andrew P. Morrison claims that, in adults, a reasonable amount of healthy narcissism allows the individual's perception of his needs to be balanced in relation to others. But.. Healthy narcissism Healthy narcissism is formed through a structural truthfulness of the self, achievement of self and object constancy, synchronization between the self and the superego and a balance between libidinal and aggressive drives (the ability to receive gratification from others and the drive for impulse expression).

Healthy narcissism forms a constant, realistic self-interest and mature goals and principles and an ability to form deep object relations. A feature related to healthy narcissism is the feeling of greatness. This is used to avoid feelings of inadequacy or insignificance.

check this site..

 http://tearsandhealing.com/narcissistic-personality-disorder5.htm

http://www.squidoo.com/how-to-deal-with-narcissistic-people

Maybe I am a bit of a narcisstic but I want to be a better person.   I guess the best medicine would be the Humble Pie...