Lazy is as lazy does...

OMG!!!!! Well I have been having a nice sweet relaxing time until now ... and being asked softly to put in
more effort in my work place was
really a surprise to me.. and was angry at first . My mind went skeltering to the
most negative scenario... my boss wants me to resign on my own, my colleague is backstabbing me, et ce tra. Talked to some friends and yes they agreed with me giving me the support I wanted but then one friend scolded
me for being so negative and ooops being childish too!!!

Dang .. my blood wanted to run high!!! But then I composed myself, stop for a sec and start to think on how to have Gratitude in this situation. And I did some intensive inner dialogue and yah I have to admit that I have been lazing around in the office doing nothing acting busy and have learnt nothing all this time and realisation hit me that I HAVE been wasting precious time playing around and lazing around. Its not about anything but my laziness ... I should have been self-learning all this time. and It has to come to this situation that I am approached by the Boss saying hey what have you been doing? Anyway its embarrassing but I do really need to do some work ... Hey I am grateful for that friend who scolded me that am being very negative and childish and lazy.......

I should have been using all that time to self-learned. Actually I did start some while ago but never continued ... ahhh me lazy bum have to work some hard ...

Motivating Forces.

“There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life.”
― John Lennon


Living Life ... Opening up to all the possibilities including being hurt .... but best of all to be able to receive Love.. How to receive? by being Grateful for all the Love that is around us , we have to notice and tp accept and to receive the Love around us.

“Piglet noticed that even though he had a Very Small Heart, it could hold a rather large amount of Gratitude.” 
― A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh

 I have practised Gratitude Living for the past 2 months. Everyday being grateful it was very hard at first then it started to get easier and easier daily.  Not to fear but to Love ... Gratitude ...

Real Love

In life we need to love ourselves rather than expect someone else to love us. We need to help ourself instead of expect someone else to help us. The only real love that we can fully depend on is God's love to us. Let us hand over our life to the Lord and trust him with our lives. As mere mortals would not be as trustworthy . With deep faith in religion we will overcome any challenges in our lives. Let us pray for guidance in our daily lives. Let us pray for a Grateful heart in life.

Philippians 4:4-7

Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice! Let your forbearing spirit be known to all men. The Lord is near. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, shall guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Practising Gratitude In My Life

I am tired of praying for strength, I just want to pray for a Grateful Heart.

I thought I have been
having a grateful heart all this time. So I have challenged myself to live every
moments of
my life in Gratitude. It has been 6 days now and I can tell you how difficult that is. To be only grateful with no other thoughts on my mind but gratefulness.

I am still struggling to be grateful every minute of my days. Made me realise how ungrateful I am in life. Even I sometimes have a headache being grateful but I hope it will become easier to me. We do not actually realise how we forget to live in gratefulness for what we have in life. It is happiness and contentment and harmony and peaceful living.

I am grateful for my amazing life having experience all the wonderful moments that is just Joyful Happiness, Its like eating chocolates, its like drinking wine. Maybe that is Heaven?

Thank You Thank You Thank You

Love gone soo wrong...

The man says he loves you, the
man says he will take care of your every need but the moment ..... his wife calls he will rush off
leaving you on your own and you will be on your own to tend your wounded heart.

Is that all that you are worth? Some man's play thing? The available one
who will attend to his beck and call when he wants your attention? Do you feel proud that he seeks your attention when he is bored at home?

Is that how you view yourself? Is that how you value yourself? It all depends on how much we value ourselves. I don't think anyone can be happy in that type of relationship for long. But maybe that is how you see it.Short term, a fling. No harm done. But remember by having flings , you are flinging around your heart and soul never finding peace never finding that harmony never finding that Blissful Happiness

I believe that deep down each one of us dreams of harmony, peace and blissful happiness. Joy in living, to get what we really worked for, strive for, that is our own.

Better to love ourselves more and lead a happy life . Do not hurt ourselves by trying to grab what others have worked hard to own and to keep and to treasure. Hope this rings a bell to someone out there.

For those Men who cannot be content with one; I dunno how you can ever be happy as you live a very destructive life-style, Self-inflicted wounds, disrupting harmony all around. I cannot imagine that type of lifestyle can ever make and create a Happy Life.