I rather be single than be in a loveless marriage.

Marriage should be for love, because it’s instituted by God, and not by any civil contract. One can lie and sign any papers, but one cannot possibly cheat God or hope that God would bless what is an abuse of the sacrament He instituted.

What about arrange marriage? Arrange marriage is okay as long as both parties are interested and willing to build a loving and caring relationship, regardless how the couple got introduced to each other.

When one partner accepts the "Arrange Marriage" just because of parental pressure or peer pressure and without any Heart to build a relationship with the partner, then the Marriage is doom from the start.

To choose to be in a Loveless Marriage where there is no potential for the Marriage to blossom into a meaningful relationship is beyond me. It is like punishing myself for my entire lifetime. I really cannot imagine being in that situation as I am so happy with my life now, with all its freedom, perks and benefits of Singledom.

How could I ever imprison myself into a miserable situation? From what I have gathered it it is sooo obvious that the path will lead to Misery. Furthermore, a loveless marriage is unfair to the one that is in love. 

I am not stating the fact that I will never get married, point blank. If I meet someone who loves me and wants to be with me for the simple fact of being with me forever then I would happily be married to that person. Yaey!!! I leave it to FATE ,  God works in Mysterious ways and God has timed our destiny perfectly ..

Jeremiah 29:11
 "For I know the plans I have for you," says the LORD. "They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. "

AMEN

Market outlook?

Mmm some say Market is gonna fall big time ... Because of Us economy crisis in four months time .. Wow didn' know that it can be predicted so accurately .. must be a financial analyst whiz who has made millions out of the stock markets rise and fall.. Else how to believe..even warren buffet can't make that accurate prediction..


So what should we do.? keep money where it's safe?where is that? For how long ? When will the Market bottom out? How do we know? Follow the herd mentality? That is a trap .. we call those investers as speculators... I never believe such things coz I have my own goals .. I dun think a four month downturn will affect my long term goals... What's four months compared to twenty years? The best thing is to keep saving and Investing routinely till I reach my goals...

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Waiting again in the car...

Misplaced office keys ... :( checked in my bag but it's not there ...

My mind is in a mess thinking about nonsense.

Where to go , what to do ,

why do it? ...

Haa thinking of the other species that comes from mars... They are so weird .. Alien beings can't never understand them....

Thought it would be simpler hahaha now it's totally complicated... How did I ever end up at this Point? Well my Mind say there is no use to think on that better use my Brain energy to think of other useful stuff.. Need to refocus and concentrate on what I had plan to do ...

Staying on this road is hard.. Am one person who change directions when am feeling a bit bored with how things are.. in life there is only two choices, to accept it or change it... guess for now I really need to refocus on my goals and try to stick to it till completion..so whatever whatever I need to accept things as it is and continue on this road till I reach my destination for now...

Mmmm hard to do harder to keep doing it ..day by day.. need some peace and calm ... I have to find some joy and fun in doing what am doing now.. and humble myself to accept the challenges thrown my way... Happiness is the joy in the journey not the destination... :)




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